I used to look forward to holiday baking, decorating and wrapping gifts. I would even go so far as to say I was talented in these areas. Unfortunately, in the last few years my holiday cheer has been replaced by holiday guilt. With three kids and a full-time job I never have enough time to participate in these holiday traditions. What I do manage to accomplish does not meet my exacting standards. When I founded See Jane Work I thought I would have more time with my kids; but that was my first mistake.
I recently attended a dinner party and listened to moms who were just as busy and had just as many kids. It was a challenge, but I made a point of hearing their advice rather than tallying all the ways that they were better than me.
So how do they survive the holidays? They make lists and combine tasks.
Making lists may sound like organizing 101, but you would be surprised how easily you can be swayed by the marketing mania that surrounds holiday shopping. If you organize your shopping on a list you will spend less, get the gifts you need, and ensure that you’ve purchased items that the recipients will actually like or want. It’s easy to blow your holiday budget when you see the great sales and discounts; a list will keep you on track. I’ve created a form that you can use to plan your holiday gifts. Click here to see the Holiday Gifts Form.
Combining tasks is also nothing new. I’m sure you’ve attended cookie parties designed to simplify holiday baking; I’m not convinced they really work. My kids expect the same cookies every year so no matter what I bring home from a party I still have to bake the cookies they prefer. What these ladies do is eliminate holiday social events and instead make parties out of their holiday tasks. They go shopping together to minimize mall parking lot frustration. They have a wrapping party instead of a cocktail party (don’t worry there are still cocktails). They even buy cases of wine to get the discount then trade bottles for a variety.
You’ll still have to attend some holiday parties, but you’ll look a whole lot better in your fancy dress if you’re stress free. So get your girls together and get busy. Make being organized for the holidays a group project!
When you're feeling overwhelmed and having difficulty getting started, it helps to make a list. Get all that stuff in your mind down on paper. Limit yourself to one line per item, if you have a due date include that next to the item. Don't worry about priority or additional detail at this time, just get it on paper. Once you've finished, group items into categories by priority, then type, for example errands, calls, urgent, etc. Relief will come as you work through the list and cross things off. To read past Quick Tips click here